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WyldFire
Owatonna, Minnesota USA

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What's with people?
Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 3:55 PM CST

I've been here a day, well, not even. And I've sent out a couple messages to people and gotten no reply, but they've viewed my profile. What happened to the common courteous reply? Even if it is to say, "No thanks, I'm not interested." And it's amazing how shallow people can be with body type. I'll admit it, someone so over weight that they can't move isn't the most attractive but saying no to someone who is not the perfect 10 figure is a little outrageous. There's the small saying that "real people aren't perfect, and perfect people aren't real."

By no means am I thrashing this site or the people on it. But isn't anyone else sick of this? rolling eyes





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 4:35 PM CST

Come over here...you need a hug hug conversing





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WyldFire
Owatonna, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 6:20 PM CST

whitetiger777us wrote:
Come over here...you need a hug


Can I get a cookie too? grin





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 7:02 PM CST

WyldFire wrote:
Can I get a cookie too?


Hold on, next you'll be wanting my number, and then a glass of milk. I draw the line at milk. And my number is 777. rolling on the floor laughing

You know, if you're not careful, I'll have to roll you up in cookie dough and chase you around with a spatula. sticking out tongue





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WyldFire
Owatonna, Minnesota USA

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What's with people?
Posted: Jul 3, 2008, 8:23 PM CST

whitetiger777us wrote:
Hold on, next you'll be wanting my number, and then a glass of milk. I draw the line at milk. And my number is 777.

You know, if you're not careful, I'll have to roll you up in cookie dough and chase you around with a spatula.


I thought the crazyness was supposed to stay on the other thread?! but apparently that's just everyone and everywhere in general. uncertain





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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What's with people?
Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 1:13 AM CST

In general, yes. If it wasn't for me being a little crazy, people would think I was insane.confused





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WyldFire
Owatonna, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 1:48 AM CST

whitetiger777us wrote:
In general, yes. If it wasn't for me being a little crazy, people would think I was insane.


Excuses, excuses... Looks like women aren't the only ones full of em. sticking out tongue





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dutch67
Blaine, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 9:34 AM CST

That's just how it's done online, unfortunately. I've never received a response from someone saying "no thanks"...people either write back if they want to talk to you, or they ignore you. It's just easier to not respond if you're not interested. Chalk it up to normal human laziness.





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 12:40 PM CST

I'd rather get ignored than invest my emotions in lengthy conversation only to be told that you're a great guy but.....

...you're too old.

....I'm still kind of involved with someone and I don't know what to do.

....I'm still hurting from my last relationship, you are a nice guy, I don't want to lead you on, but I need time to heal.

....I've found someone else that lives closer.

So I say thank God for human laziness. It makes things easier.





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k_4beautiful
North Branch, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 1:25 PM CST

whitetiger777us wrote:
I'd rather get ignored than invest my emotions in lengthy conversation only to be told that you're a great guy but.....

...you're too old. (or too young!! lol)

....I'm still kind of involved with someone and I don't know what to do.

....I'm still hurting from my last relationship, you are a nice guy, I don't want to lead you on, but I need time to heal.

....I've found someone else that lives closer.

So I say thank God for human laziness. It makes things easier.


I totally agree Wyldfire!! hug Men....yes, women can be too, tend to be more into looks than what is inside. frustrated I HATE that!! But...I guess I would rather them ignore me than deal w/all of the crap that Whitetiger said though too, ya know? D'oh! I have sent out quite a few flowers/emails to people w/no response...but I figure A.They are lazy as hell B.Aren't interested for whatever million reasons C.Never are actually on the site anymore D.Are shitty people anyway and I can do much better! sticking out tongue IDK....maybe I am wrong. Well....I am not gonna lie to someone about who I am or what I look like just to make them happy cause that is just retarded. mumbling If you don't like what you see...GO AWAY!! If you don't like what you hear....GO AWAY!!! Oh...BTW...if this is annoying any of you...GO AWAY!!! lol rolling on the floor laughing devil Yes....Whitetiger is a bit crazy...but we love him just the same! wink hug Well...I better get back to my life...oh yeah! lol TTYL
~K~ purple_heart





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 2:12 PM CST

K, you wouldn't like me if I wasn't crazy.

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WyldFire
Owatonna, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 3:39 PM CST

I consider more human rudeness than lazyness, or maybe even a strong combination of both. Shallow people just annoy me and I was have a bad day already when I made the thread. I guess being ignored is a hell of a lot better than having your flaws pointed out by a complete stranger.

But, a girl can hope that people can change, right? sigh





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 4, 2008, 4:33 PM CST

WyldFire wrote:
I consider more human rudeness than lazyness, or maybe even a strong combination of both. Shallow people just annoy me and I was have a bad day already when I made the thread. I guess being ignored is a hell of a lot better than having your flaws pointed out by a complete stranger.

But, a girl can hope that people can change, right?


Hind sight is 20/20. And yes you can hope for the best....but prepare for the worst.





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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What's with people?
Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 5:03 PM CST

whitetiger777us wrote:
Hind sight is 20/20. And yes you can hope for the best....but prepare for the worst.



Like I just did.





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whitetiger777us
shakopee, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 6, 2008, 9:45 PM CST

What's with people anyway?D'oh!





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curly1969
cottage grove , Minnesota USA

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What's with people?
Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 12:15 AM CST

WyldFire wrote:
I consider more human rudeness than lazyness, or maybe even a strong combination of both. Shallow people just annoy me and I was have a bad day already when I made the thread. I guess being ignored is a hell of a lot better than having your flaws pointed out by a complete stranger.

But, a girl can hope that people can change, right?


WyldFire:

See my post "where the hell is everyone" sounds like we both have had our share of shitty days. At least you seem to be a bit more composed (for now) in your inquiries. Hopefully you can keep that inner peace. I think so far everyone that has given you a response is right on the money........Thank God for the internet, it is VERY obvious that people have forgotten what MN NICE is all about..........I will tell ya my secret (and this is why I consider Dog, ~K~, Stef, Whitetiger, Annie and all those other nutcases that have replied to at least one of my threads my true friends), those people have not forgotten. they give freely until it hurts then give some more. THOSE are the people you need to care about responses from or responding to the others......Screw em.

hope I made sense





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curly1969
cottage grove , Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 12:23 AM CST

whitetiger777us wrote:
Hold on, next you'll be wanting my number, and then a glass of milk. I draw the line at milk. And my number is 777.

You know, if you're not careful, I'll have to roll you up in cookie dough and chase you around with a spatula.



"look into the crystal ball, your milk and cookies await. Just look deeper and you will see the those relaxing eyes and that guy who awaits with a spatula in one hand and a baking pan in the other".........

OMG............sorry, but the thought of cookie dough, jello(see other post) and a POOL just sound too damn good to be true. ~K~ I apologize in advance cause your pool is going to be a mess with all that cookie dough we'll be playing with. ONLY WHO'S BRINGING THE ICE CREAMgrin dancing banana rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing peace





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k_4beautiful
North Branch, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 8, 2008, 4:33 PM CST

Ooohhh oooohh!! Did someone say cookies and ice cream?!?!? yay I am soooo excited I don't care about my pool!! lol rolling on the floor laughing The last thread talked about bread and meat, now we have cookies and ice cream!! A complete friggin' meal!! SWEEEEEET!! dancing rolling on the floor laughing Yep, people suck!! Plan for the worst and don't expect anything! sticking out tongue
~K~ purple_heart





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WyldFire
Owatonna, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 7:46 PM CST

I have some cookie and cream ice cream. Does that count?

Or would there be too much cream already? rolling on the floor laughing

Baaaaaad dirty joke... Sorry guys. innocent





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DogMaI
Sartell, Minnesota USA

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Posted: Jul 9, 2008, 10:50 PM CST

WyldFire wrote:
I have some cookie and cream ice cream. Does that count?

Or would there be too much cream already?

Baaaaaad dirty joke... Sorry guys.


Ohhhhh that's ok we can all see by the emoticon you are an angelwink laugh grin





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